You can’t dress like that in our gym

By curator, Lindsey Kukunda

When feminist Mildred Apenyo started Uganda’s first women’s only gym FitClique, I heard quite a number of grumbles about the oddness of having a gym dedicated to making one sex comfortable.  I want to tell you a story to explain why I for one think it was long overdue.

I was a resident in Speke Hotel Munyonyo for a week and could not use their gym even once because my clothes were deemed inappropriate. I’m not complaining. The story really is quite funny. When I trotted into their gym I was wearing an outfit similar to the one below but had a tank top instead of a crop top.


Minus the beer

A manager told me it was against their dress codes for women and I had to wear a full top and he mumbled something about proper exercising shorts. Okay. So I went back to my hotel room, donned my bikini and spent two hours lounging by the pool which is located directly in front of the gym. I want you to dig this, please. Everyone inside the gym could see us swans outside and we could see the muscular men and ‘fully dressed’ women exercising inside.

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I was wearing these proper shorts outside

After that I asked for the changing rooms. I want you to dig this again: It turns out the changing rooms are located inside the gym!

So I, and every man, woman and child swimming or sauna-ing had to walk through the gym, more naked than the exercisers, endure their appreciative or nonchalant stares to get to the changing rooms.

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I’m not even going to try to make sense of that

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I just hope you can see why sometimes we want to cut through all the bullcrap and have a safe space where we’re not told that our bodies are a source of discomfort for other patrons



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